傷 痕 實 驗

              美國某大學的科研人員進行過一項有趣的心理學實驗，名曰“傷痕實驗”。他們向參與其中的志願者宣稱，該實驗旨在觀察人們對身體有缺陷的陌生人作何反應，尤其是面部有傷痕的人。

每位志願者被單獨安排在沒有鏡子的小房間裡，由好萊塢的專業化妝師在其左臉做出一道血肉模糊、觸目驚心的傷痕。志願者被允許用一面小鏡子照照化妝的效果後，之後鏡子就被拿走了。

尤為關鍵的是最後一個步驟，化妝師表示需要在傷痕表面再塗一層粉末，以防止它被誤擦掉。實際上，化妝師用紙巾偷偷抹掉了化妝的痕跡。

對此毫不知情的志願者們被派往各醫院的候診室，他們的任務就是觀察人們對其面部傷痕的反應。

規定的時間到了，返回的志願者們竟無一例外地敘述了相同的感受––人們對他們比以往更加粗魯無理、不友好，而且總是盯著他們的臉看！

毫無疑問，他們的臉上什麼也沒有，是不健康的自我認知影響了他們的判斷。與臉上的傷痕相比，一個人心靈的傷痕雖然隱蔽得多，但同樣會通過自己的言行顯現出來。

如果我們自認為有缺陷、不可愛、沒有價值，也往往會以同樣的懷疑、缺乏愛心、令人氣餒的態度對待別人，從而很難建立起互信互利的人際關繫。

人的心靈就像一面鏡子，你感知到的是什麼樣的世界，取決於你如何看待自己。

(文/劉宇婷 編譯 中國移動周刊)

這真是一個發人深省的實驗。原來，一個人內心怎樣看待自己，在外界就能感受到怎樣的眼光。

同時，這個實驗也從一個側面驗證了一句西方格言：「別人是以你看待自己的方式看待你。」不是嗎？

一個從容的人，感受到的多是平和的眼光；一個自卑的人，感受到的多是歧視的眼光；一個和善的人，感受到的多是友好的眼光；一個叛逆的人，感受到的多是挑惕的眼光～～～

可以說，有什麼樣的內心世界，就有什麼樣的外界眼光。

所以，想要改變別人的眼光，就要先改變自己的想法...

貓 王 Elvis 全集

貓 王 Elvis 全集  !!!

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